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darcy quinn's avatar

Amazing article, just wanted to share an experience I had in Jordan, a relatively (RELATIVELY) progressive country in the Middle East last year. I met a man who is one of the premier gay activists in the country through a study abroad program I was on. He definitely had to monitor his words for the audience (a bunch of 19-24 year old American university students) but he expressed a lot of frustration with Western activists trying to help the poor MENA gays by tacking rainbows onto everything and parading drag queens. Homosexuality has actually never been illegal in the HKJ (they adapted the British penal code after independence) but it is certainly not socially acceptable, and gay people frequently get arrested on public indecency laws. Things had actually been improving a lot in Jordan until pretty recently; they even had a well-known gay bar in the capital city, Amman (which this man owned). Unfortunately, during the World Cup in Qatar, a lot of Western LGBTQRSTUV activists decided to publicly demonstrate against homophobic laws in the MENA region. This cause a lot of local conservative religious attention to fall on the gay activists in the region, accusing them of subverting their culture and (crucially) transing their children. Where before they had been making slow but steady improvement, changing hearts and minds, there was suddenly a major crackdown across the region against these activists and homosexuals in general. He also (vaguely—remember the audience) referenced the difficulty he and other gay activists were having working with NGOs. Transing children is understandably deeply unpopular in Jordan, but these activists cannot get any foreign aid or funding for their efforts unless they sign on to that, publicly, loudly. I think about him a lot. For how “decolonialist” these Western activists claim to be, they certainly act in chauvinistic, completely unresearched ways.

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Elizabeth Hummel's avatar

Thank you for this breakdown. The great irony is in your title--the result of all this self-satisfied "good intention" to support gay men who are being exploited is more homophobia. As we battle-worn, and weary TERFs well know, the erasure of sex in law and cultural norms results--at least in some ways--in the erasure of protections for same-sex attracted people and of course protections for all women. As you imply, it is also the connected and almost comical irony that it's the same colonial savior complex from the same rich, Western, still predominantly white countries that exploited so viciously "undeveloped" countries for hundreds of years. We are witnessing Manifest Destiny, so thoroughly discredited by not only social justice warriors but by any moral person alive, brightly repackaged with the latest rainbow flag. As with the original exploitation of these places and peoples, the pious sanctity--which I have no doubt is sincere in the hearts of some of the lower foot soldiers, just as it was in the hearts of those who really believed that Christianizing heathens was a noble and wonderful thing to do--masks the greed of the wealthiest individuals on the planet. LGBTQ+ is big, big business.

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